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Sara-Leigh Davis
Toronto, Canada
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Fan Mail: The attraction of HeatBag.
A lot of the most attractive women have said they are attracted to HeatBag types. If you wonder why than read on.
The Typical HeatBag is:
- Extremely confident
- Far from broke
- Puts themselves first
- Does what they want, when they want, regardless of what anyone else thinks
- Acts like a loose cannon, or potentially.
- Isn't even remotely a "nice guy'
- Feels they are on top of the mating chain. An Alpha male, so to speak, if you’ve watched the Discovery channel
Ask any girl what she likes about HeatBags. A lot of women will answer that they never know what to expect, they are a challenge, and confident, they know what they want and go after it. They are never boring. They are strong, aggressive, independent, and self assured. Women feel safe around them. Some women like the idea that maybe “she” can fix him.
Some women when asked said some things like:
Love and sexis stronger when it has intense emotions. The nice guy is like taking Amtrak whereas the bad boy is like a roller-coaster. Sure they are always nice to you, but it is just to get others to be nice back to them, and that isn't real or natural for lovers. There's no challenge in nice guys. Women like a challenge and want to be able to reform someone. It's more flattering for a HeatBag to like you. It is more special for a guy to treat most of the people he meets like jerks, but treats you nicely.
Another woman said this:
The last guy I was with was kind, gentle, respectful of my needs and gave me everything I wanted, and never disagreed with me. I HATED IT! The guy I am with now is all these things... but will put me in my place when I need to be. I find that very often, I need to be put in my place. He is not afraid to tell me I am wrong. That I am being a brat or just being plain ridiculous. and even if i whine and try to get my way, he won't give in to me if he really thinks he is right. I need a knock-down, drag-out fight every once in a while. well, maybe not literally, no one wants to be hit or anything like that, but there are times that I need to argue. You can't argue with someone who always says "you're right, princess - anything you say, angel." It's nice to be indulged, sure; but how can you respect someone who kisses your behind? Yuck!!!, give me a guy who will stand up to me, and I will be his forever.
Another's comment was:
I am attracted to them for the more masculine reason (I like to think my man can protect me if need be) but also because the super nice guys I have met get caught up in the status quo and end up getting really lazy in the relationship and their own lives. I would love to find a super nice guy who can embrace the excitement of everyday life and the relationship but I haven't found it yet.
Somebody who can be labeled as a HeatBag is masculine. He has a ton of confidence. Women find this trait of extreme confidence very attractive. It draws them towards him. It has nothing to do with looks. It has to do with his attitude and his beliefs. It draws women on an emotional level and when emotions and logic come together more often than not, if the emotion is powerful enough, the emotions win.
